We are here to support you to build a close and loving relationship however you decide to feed your baby. On this page you will find information about why this important and resources to support you with practical ways to do this.
How to build a close and loving relationship from the start
During pregnancy
You are encouraged to relax and take time to talk to your developing baby. You can help your baby’s development by stroking your baby bump, talking to your baby and by playing music. This will help to familiarise them with you and your family members voices.
At birth
Where possible, your baby will be dried and placed onto your chest to be held in skin to skin contact for as long as you wish. Remember skin to skin contact can be used at any time to calm and soothe your baby.
In the early days
Keep your baby close to recognise the signs they are hungry or need a cuddle. Responding to these signs will make your baby feel safe and secure.
Responsive Feeding
Responsive feeding is about understanding when your baby is showing signs of being hungry. Look out for cues (e.g. moving their head and mouth around and sucking on their fingers). Remember a newborn baby’s tummy is the size of a cherry so it only holds small amounts of milk. Babies may feed up to 12 times in 24 hours and this is normal. Where possible try and limit the number of people feeding your baby as this is a special time for you to bond with your baby. Responding to your baby and their needs for feeding and comfort will help them feel more secure.
Ongoing support
Ongoing support is available from your Midwife, Health Visitor or Family Nurse. They are there to support you with any questions that you may have about looking after your baby.
Resources
Baby I Love You – This is a Unicef UK baby book for all new babies and families. An audio video is available here. Reading and listening to the book with your baby will help you to get to know them and form a special bond.
Building a Happy Baby – This is a Unicef UK leaflet which describes how you can help build a special relationship with your baby. The Unicef UK leaflet is available here.
